The exploration of the A-Spot
To some, prostate pleasing seems like a taboo subject, but if males could let their partners explore the possibilities of prostate pleasuring, they may be surprised by the result. The “A-Spot” as it is being coined, can be an incredibly rewarding and sensual addition to your sexual repertoire.
How To Pleasure the A Spot
Start slow by placing a condom over one or two fingers; lube them well; touching around the rectum will help to relax you enough to enable easy insertion of one or two fingers. About two inches up the rectum you will feel another ring of muscles. Allow yourself a minute or so for these muscles to relax. When your fingers can go up about 3-4 inches, if you gently stroke you will feel the prostate. The prostate gland is firmer than surrounding organs, about the size of a walnut, and very sensitive. Bend your fingers slightly toward the abdomen and gently stroke. This should result in an intense orgasm for the man. You can ensure success by taking things slow; expand your sexual play one step at a time.
The Male G Spot
The term ‘G-spot’ has been around for years. Speaking in more familiar terms, such as the male G-spot may be discussed more easily than the male A-Spot because of the presumed stigma surrounding it. The G-Spot is something that almost every woman has the ability to find, and allowing men a safe environment in the bedroom to explore their hidden spots just as women do will enhance your relationship.
Sex many times is sheltered; some men and women are reluctant to explore their sexuality because they are afraid that they may be looked down upon. The A-Spot is an example of sexual exploration some may be afraid to try because it is something outside their comfort zone. Sexual inhibition has not been lost but hidden, and by learning more about our bodies and our sexuality I feel that people today could learn a thing or two.
There are images of men in compromising positions with other men and it was not frowned upon. It is human nature to be sexual so getting to know your A-Spot is something I would recommend for any man. Take it slow because finding the A-Spot and learning new ways to pleasure yourself should not be rushed because many times it is something new and unfamiliar.
There are all types of products available made specifically for the male prostate that will be able to maximize your pleasure and aid in finding the A-spot. Always be sure to use lube with your partner when implementing toy use into your new sexual experiences. BetterSex.com is a great resource of products and information on enhancing the A-Spot experience. Rocks Off Rude Boy Prostate Massager is a highly rated sex toy for men in search of their A-Spot. The soft silicone structure and curved shape is designed to provide direct prostate stimulation for maximum anal satisfaction. Prostate massagers may be a good starting point in your pursuit of the A-Spot because they are specifically made for that purpose, whereas manual finger stimulation from a partner may hurt if they are unsure of what they are doing. Arming yourself with knowledge will help return the desired results.
Latest posts by Better Sex Center (see all)
- The Art of the Stroke – A Guide to Male Masturbators - September 23
- Get Your Partner into Bed Tonight – Simple Ideas for Inspiring Sizzling Sex! - August 11
- 10 Tips for Better Sex - June 27