Don’t make your sex life a chore. Also try not to treat it like you would a regular car maintenance – something you have to do or else the relationship will break. Sex is supposed to be fun, exciting, erotic, something you think about long after it’s done. Don’t let monotony create a bad and unfulfilling sex life for you and your partner.
We’ve all heard the expression: “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.” Well, this expression should never apply to having sex with your partner. If you find yourself having the same type of sex, in the same positions, with the same obligatory orgasms, you need to stop! Now! It’s time to revitalize your sex life. It needs a boost!
Do you schedule when you’re going to have sex with your partner? Do you have it only on certain days? Keeping your sex life consistent is important, but losing its spontaneity is not healthy for you. It may be time to change the way you’re doing things.
When’s the last time you had morning sex? What about moments-before-bed sex on a “school night”? Have you made love in the shower together recently? Met for a quickie at lunch? Just changing the time of day that you have sex can immediately break you out of the rut.
Grab a new sex toy. Sex toys come in numerous shapes, sizes, models and varieties to appeal to every type of person. Have you always been interested in a certain type of sex, perhaps anal sex? What about finding new ways to please your female partner by using a vibrator together? Ask her to go shopping for some sexy lingerie outfits that she can wear with you.
There is no excuse for you to have a predictable sex life. You want to give your relationship a more fulfilling, more sexually-charged experience. You want to have better sex – and you can easily by just adding something new to it.
What’s one of your favorite sexual fantasies? Tell your partner. Try to role play together. Want to learn different techniques with oral sex? Purchase a sex education video. Looking for new inspiration to help jazz things up a bit? Get an adult movie DVD. You’ll see how other couples are having sex and can get turned on by watching them.
When you have a better sex life, you have a better relationship. Great sex leads to better communication and closer intimacy with your partner in general. It’s essential to have great sex and with all the resources, sex toys, outfits, new positions and different times of the day that you can take advantage of, there’s no reason why you should ever be stuck in a sex rut. Find your way out today!
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