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Monday, March 1, 2010 by Martin Smith

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Rabbit Vibrator Buying Guide...For Men
Remember Sex and the City’s 1998 Turtle and the Hare episode #109 when Miranda introduced her friends to rabbit vibrators and their simultaneous clitoris and g-pot stimulation? Who can forget Charlotte’s addiction to her rabbit:

Carrie and Charlotte are stretching together in yoga class)
Carrie: (voiceover) My Zen teacher once told me that there was nothing like
yoga to quiet a busy mind. Just as I had reached the moment of no thought...
Charlotte: (whispering) I think I broke my vagina.
Carrie: Oh sorry, am I pulling too hard?
Charlotte: No, metaphorically, I mean. With "the rabbit."

Charlotte’s addiction to pleasurable simultaneous stimulation of g-spot and clitoris launched a thousand ships. A little more than ten years after episode #109 we are in the middle of a rabbit vibrator revolution. Every day brings new rabbit style, technology and manufacturers. So much choice can make it hard for a construction worker, stock broker or web marketing guy to buy a rabbit for their partners. The Rabbit Vibrator Buying Guide…For Men helps men understand how to buy a rabbit for their partners. Our buying guide covers Rabbit Vibrator 101 Basics, Female Anatomy and Orgasm and Rabbit Vibrator recommendations from BetterSex.com.

Rabbit Vibrator 101 Basics

Rabbit Vibrator Definition
We define “rabbits” broadly as any vibrator capable of simultaneous g-spot and clitoral stimulation. Rabbits may use fluttering ears, paws, wings or dolphins for clitoral stimulation. Rabbit vibrators use beads or discs to simultaneously stimulate her g-spot and many have rotating and vibrating heads to assist g-spot stimulation.

Female Anatomy and Orgasm
The man in the boat may seem a strange analogy to describe female anatomy. Metaphors stick because they are descriptive, accurate and helpful in creating a mental picture. A woman’s clitoris, packed with 8,000 nerve endings, is the primary source of sexual pleasure and orgasm for most women so finding and stimulating your partner’s “man in the boat” is important.

This boat anchors above a woman’s vaginal opening. North of a woman’s vaginal opening is her Urethral Orifice (where she pees). Keep traveling north and start to see “the boat” or a woman’s Labia Minora’s v-like tissue points slightly further north to our hooded friend the Clitoris. The clitoral hood helps protect those 8,000 nerve endings from too much excitement too fast. A woman’s clitoris, like a man’s penis, fills with blood becoming “erect” when excited. Clitoris size varies with excitement and anatomy, but “about the size of a pea” is an accepted general definition. A rabbit vibrator’s fluttering elements (ears, paws, wings, dolphins) tease and stimulate her clitoris. (Ref: Wikipedia Keyword: Clitoris)

Most rabbits have a vibrating and rotating penis-like head to stimulate a woman’s vagina and Gräfenberg Spot. Dr. Gräfenberg’s spot of spongy tissue is more commonly known as a woman’s g-spot. Stimulation of a woman’s g-spot may produce “vaginal orgasms”. The G-Spot is located about one to three inches inside her vagina, on the anterior vagina wall (roof close to the vaginal opening). For some women, G-Spot stimulation provided with fingers performing a “come hither” gesture with palm facing north or from a vibrator can produce an intense “vaginal” orgasm.

Vaginal orgasms are controversial. Some doctors believe female orgasms are clitoral. Controversy isn’t as important for our Rabbit Vibrator buying guide as knowing what your partner likes. Does your partner like simultaneous stimulation of her vagina and clitoris during love making? Then she should enjoy rabbit vibrators.

Men take heart. No penis can do gymnastics necessary to simultaneously stimulate her g-spot and clitoris. Sex positions, covered in detail in The Better Sex Video Series and The Art of Sexual Positions, can help provide stimulation to her clitoris and g-spot, but no penis curves at ninety degrees (ouch) or can be in two places at once. Cock rings add teasing vibration above and below a man’s penis. Teasing clitoral vibration can help stimulate her to orgasm while making love. Cock rings do things no penis can. Rabbit vibrators do things no penis can too.

Should men feel inadequate? If you are smart enough to read our Rabbit Buying Guide…For Men the answer is NO. Inadequacy is often rooted in selfishness, lack of knowledge or both. You are 500 words into an article teaching you how to buy a sex toy for her, so you aren’t selfish or stupid. Any and every purchase on BetterSex.com includes our industry leading 90 Day Satisfaction guarantee. You CAN’T make a wrong decision. Strike that. The only wrong decision is doing nothing. Do nothing and nothing happens, but follow our rabbit buying guide tips and your love life gets better…guaranteed.

Rabbit Vibrator Buying Guide…For Men: Rabbit Beginners
We don’t know you or your partner, so rabbit recommendations can be tricky. We’ve divide our Rabbit Vibrator suggestions into rabbit beginners and veterans. We reference rabbit vibrator experience only. You can be a great lover and never experienced Charlotte’s addiction to rabbits. Even when we use “rabbit beginner” it is tricky. Some people like to move slow and steady when it comes to anything new in the bedroom. Other jump right in.

Rabbit Beginner: Slow And Steady
It is important to keep things simple for this group. We have three suggestions that can help the slow and steady beginners become accustomed to a rabbit’s intense clitoral and g-spot stimulation.

My First Jack Rabbit Vibrator
In an excellent Better Sex Buzz Team review by Mrs. Cummings this rabbit’s ease of use and the ability to share orgasm instructions with her partner make this “first” rabbit a winner. Other reviews insist this “first” rabbit is not just for rookies and praise ergonomics, balance and controls.

Climax Rabbits Royalty Vibrators
These “small little rabbits” inspire intense loyalty with big “WOW” factors. Controls are easy and power well allocated, not too much and not too little, making these “royal” first rabbits.

Climax remotes Wireless Rabbit
Climax has made one of the quietest rabbits on the market. Rabbits, with all those rotating beads, vibrating heads and fluttering ears, can make some noise. Most rabbit users are making MORE noise, but delivering power with quiet along with the remote makes Climax’s remote Wireless Rabbit a great first rabbit vibrator.

Rabbit Vibrator Beginner: All In
If your partner likes to jump out of planes directly into the deep end then their “first” rabbit vibrators may need to match their adventurous personality.

Dream Maker Nocturnal Emission
Dream Maker’s rabbit vibrator uses new technology for g-spot stimulation – rotating discs instead of beads. Buzz Team Member HS Sweetheart wrote about her initial skepticism. What difference, she wondered, could those discs make? “This one (Dream Maker’s Nocturnal Emission Rabbit) gave me a mind-blowing orgasm.” If you want to skip right to advanced physics we suggest starting with Dream Maker Nocturnal Emission’s rabbit.

16 Function Rabbit Super
The Better Sex Buzz Team explained what made this powerful, versatile rabbit vibrator super. Power well and easily controlled makes 16 Function Rabbit Supper one of our best sellers and a great “all in” choice.

Platinum Jack Rabbit
Leave it to our friends at California Exotics to improve on a great thing. Their Platinum Jack Rabbit vibrator is beautiful, graceful and high quality. As one Better Sex Buzz Team member said, “this rabbit gets down to business FAST!” Other reviews discuss Platinum’s balance, power and ease of use making Platinum a precious rabbit vibrator.

Rabbit Vibrator Veterans
Rabbit Vibrators may be the most innovative sex toy. Sex and the City launched a thousand ships and several hundred new rabbit vibrator manufacturers. If your partner is used to “old school” rabbits there may be some “new school” innovations you should buy for her including….

Thrusting Jack Rabbit
Many rabbits rotate few thrust. This Thrusting Jack Rabbit achieved a rare five heart rating from 12 different Better Sex Buzz Team members. The thrusting action, “works wonderfully”. One Buzzer nominated Thrusting Jack Rabbit as “King of the Clitoris” so you know it takes its simultaneous g-spot and clitoral stimulation seriously and does it well.

Utopia Couture Collection Rabbit
Should this rabbit be on a Paris fashion runway instead of your bedside table? Nope, more fun if it is in reaching distance. Better Sex Buzz Teamers love this "fashion" rabbit noting its futuristic looks, back-lit buttons and crazy g-spot stimulation. This rabbit is on the bigger side packing 7 inches length and 1.5 inch diameter. Check out the entire Couture Collection of

Endless Pleasure Rabbit Vibrator Picture and Link Endless Pleasure Rabbit Vibrator
Another thrusting, stroking rabbit vibrator the Endless Pleasure gets high marks from Buzz Team reviewers. Reviewers loved this rabbit’s motion, texture and clitoral stimulation. Ease of use and great ergonomics make the Endless Pleasure Rabbit Vibrator a

Follow rabbit vibrator buying tips outlined in our Rabbit Buying Guide - For Men and you can't go wrong. We back every purchase with an industry leading 90 Day Satisfaction Guarantee, include some of the best Better Sex Buzz Team Reviews on the planet and, as educators and creators of award winning adult sex education products such as The Better Sex Video Series, we know how to help your love life improve.

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The Rabbit Buying Guide for Women

Monday, March 1, 2010 by Nout Boctor

Why every woman needs a rabbit vibrator

Rabbit vibrators are some of the most popular sex toys for women. Rabbit Vibrators provide simultaneous stimulation of a woman’s external and internal sex organs. What happens when a rabbit vibrator simultaneously stimulates clitoris and g-spot? For many women, rabbit vibrators help create powerful “mind-blowing” orgasms. Our Rabbit Buying Guide…For Women includes a everything a woman needs to know BEFORE she makes a rabbit vibrator purchase including:

o    Rabbit Vibrator Defined
o    Rabbits, Vibrations, and the Female Orgasm
o    How to Use a Rabbit Vibe
o    A Brief History of Rabbit Vibes
o    What types of Rabbit vibrators are available?
o    Care and Cleaning
o    Enjoy your new toy!

Rabbit Vibrator Defined

We use the word “rabbit” loosely. A rabbit vibrator is any vibrator that has a shaft for internal stimulation, buttons that control vibrations and functions and their intensity, and a clitoral stimulator that is attached to the shaft. Although the original Rabbit Vibrator did have a rabbit shape, now the clitoral stimulator is in the shape of a rabbit, bird, dolphin, squirrel, among other options.

Rabbits, Vibration, and the Female Orgasm

The clitoris is the female equivalent of the penis, making it the most sensitive erogenous zone of a woman. Because it contains over 8,000 nerve endings, the stimulation of the clitoris may produce an orgasm. Early studies of female orgasm separated orgasms into two categories: the clitoral orgasm, which is orgasm reached from clitoral stimulation and the vaginal orgasm, which is orgasm reached from internal stimulation. Lately, however, new studies have been showing that vaginal orgasms may actually be linked to clitoral orgasms, meaning that the clitoris is really the main point of orgasm in women (Wikipedia). No two women are alike in their anatomy and their likes and dislikes, however, and some women prefer vaginal stimulation to clitoral stimulation. But most women who stimulate the clitoris and the vagina at the same time end up having fantastic orgasms. Rabbit vibrators are a great way to achieve that dual stimulation.

How to Use a Rabbit Vibe

Usually, the shaft of the rabbit vibe is inserted vaginally for internal stimulation, while the rabbit-shaped clitoral stimulator tantalizes the external labia, clitoris, and surrounding areas. Depending on the type of rabbit that you own, your shaft may wiggle, rotate, or thrust. Various buttons are available for you to control the intensity of the vibrations as well as any other function that you rabbit vibe may have. A good rule of thumb is to play with the controls on the rabbit vibe before you insert it so you know exactly what to expect. Also, you may want to begin with the lower speeds and vibration intensity and work your way up to higher speeds the closer you reach climax.

We recommend that you use plenty of personal lubricant when you are playing with your rabbit vibrator. Whether you are new to rabbits or are an experienced rabbit user, lubing up your toy with ensure that you have a pleasant experience leading to an incredible orgasm. A good lube choice is the Better Sex Essentials Gel Lubricant because it can be used with any toy, no matter if it’s made of silicone or rubber, and it stays where you put it. For variety, check out a sample pack like the Better Sex Essentials Lubricant Collection.

A Brief History of Rabbit Vibes

Rabbit vibrators are relatively new to the sex toy scene, having been around for only about a decade. The original rabbit vibe is the Vibratex Rabbit Pearl, from which all of today’s rabbits sprung. Rabbit vibes gained extreme notoriety after the Rabbit Pearl was mentioned in season 1 episode 9 of HBO’s Sex and the City series (Wikipedia) and as with anything that gets featured in a popular TV series or movie, the rabbit vibrator made its way into mainstream pop culture. And that’s a great thing, because now women have more access to pleasurable sex toys that provide dual stimulation than ever before.

What types of Rabbit vibrators are available?

There are many different kinds of rabbit vibrators available. From the large, to the petite, to the multi-function, to the waterproof, there is sure to be a rabbit vibrator out there to please every woman. Before you purchase, read the item description and dimensions on the product page, and peruse any item reviews if they are available. This way you have a good idea of what type of rabbit you are looking at before you make a decision. Consider the options that you are looking for in a rabbit vibe such as cost, size, color, material, functions, shape, etc. Each woman is different, so it’s important to pick a rabbit that fits your anatomy best and meets your requirements. Below are some main rabbit vibrator types. Reading through this list may help you decide which type works best for you.

Traditional Rabbit Vibes

These vibrators usually have a phallic-looking shaft, a small rabbit-or other animal-shaped protrusion for clitoral stimulation, and buttons on the base to control the vibrator’s functions. The functions are vibrations at different speeds, beads that rotate within the shaft, and pulsations or intermittent vibrations. Some are also waterproof, so you can use them in the shower or hot tub.

Price: starts at $24.95

Average dimensions: Width: 1-1.5”; Length: 6.5-7.5”

Who it's best for: A traditional rabbit vibe is best for those who like the way it looks, seek a good value, and want the dual stimulation of a rabbit vibe but don’t require additional functions. These rabbit are usually on the medium to large side, so they would work best for women who prefer larger toys, experienced rabbit users, or beginners who are not afraid to jump right in.

Examples: 16-Function Rabbit Super Vibrator, Platinum Jack Rabbit, Rampert Rabbit, Beaded Snowbird, Wet Turtle Vibrator.

G-Spot Rabbit Vibes

While most traditional rabbits can be maneuvered to hit your G spot for extra stimulation, there are rabbit out there made with G spot stimulation in mind. These rabbits tend to have a small bend at the tip of the shaft specifically for hitting the G spot.

The best way to find your G-spot is to lie on your back with your knees bent. Putting a pillow under your lower back may make you more comfortable. Insert a finger or hooked vibrator into your vagina. Curve your finger or the tip of the vibe towards your belly button. The G-spot is located about 1 ½ to 3 inches inside. The pea-shaped spot feels like a sponge. G-spot stimulation can lead to incredibly intense orgasms.

Price: starts at $39.95

Average dimensions: Width: 1-1.5”; Length: 6.5-7.5”

Who it's best for: Women who love G spot stimulation and want to experience the dual clitoral and G spot stimulation of a rabbit vibrator but not miss out on orgasmic G spot vibrations. G spot Rabbits are great for experienced users and beginners alike, but make sure the dimensions of the vibrator are to your liking.

Examples: Evolved Serenity, G Spot Bunny Vibrator, Rotating G Spot Rabbit Vibrator, Wild G spot Rabbit Vibrator, Sweet G Dual Stimulator Rabbit Vibrator, grrl toyz Butterfly G Bliss.

Petite Rabbit Vibes

Petite rabbit vibrators are usually very similar to traditional rabbit vibes but tend to have a shorter or slimmer shaft. If you have never tried a rabbit vibrator before, are petite in stature, or prefer smaller insertable toys, petite rabbits are a great place to start. Read the reviews and dimensions for the rabbit vibrators listed below to find the one that fits you best.

Price: starts at 29.95

Average dimensions: Width: 1-1.5”; Length: 4-5”

Who it's best for: Women who want a rabbit vibrator but prefer a shorter or slimmer shaft. Petite rabbit vibes are also great for beginners and women who have never tried insertable toys or rabbits before.

Examples: My First Jack Rabbit Vibrator, Wascally Wabbit Rabbit Vibrator, G Spot Bunny Vibrator, Rotating Romping Rabbit, Climax Remotes Royalty Rabbits.

Thrusting Rabbit Vibes

Thrusting rabbit vibrators are like traditional rabbits in that they offer clitoral and shaft vibration and rotations with different levels, but they have an added bonus--a shaft that “thrusts” or makes wave-like motions up and down, mimicking the sensation of intercourse.

Price: starts at 59.95

Average dimensions: Width: 1.5”; Length: 6-7”

Who it's best for: Women who want a rabbit vibrator that mimic the thrusting of sexual intercourse and women who need more internal stimulation. Thrusting rabbit vibes are mostly better for experienced users as they tend to be on the medium to large size.

Examples: Passion Wave Teaser, Thrusting Jack Rabbit, Deep Thrusting Rabbit Stroker, Deep Daffy Thrusting Stroker, Dreammaker Nocturnal Emissions Rabbit.

Sleek and Modern Rabbit Vibes

Sleek rabbit vibrators look different than traditional rabbit vibrators. They have the same options as traditional rabbit vibes but tend to have a modern-looking non-phallic shape, a smoother feel, and are sometimes made from other materials such as silicone. Modern rabbits have more options than traditional one such as a rechargeable battery pack, a suction-cup end for wall mounting, a self-warming shaft, or the ability to connect to your PC.

Price: starts at $37.45 for sleek rabbits, $99.95 for modern rabbits

Average dimensions: Width: 1-1.5”; Length: 6.5-7.5”

Who it's best for: Sleek rabbits are best for women who are looking for a more discreet rabbit vibrator, a sleek and smooth feel, and one that looks more like a piece modern art and less like a sex toy. Modern rabbit vibes are a great choice for experienced rabbit users looking to upgrade their rabbit because they seek extra functions or options that traditional rabbits don’t have or even for beginner rabbit users who know exactly what they are looking for in a sex toy.

Examples: Rechargeable Jack Rabbit, Body Heat Self-Warming Rabbit Vibe, Internet Enabled Dual Action Rabbit, Evolved Marvel, Nouveau Couture Rabbit, Utopia Couture Rabbit, Deluxe Rotating Wallbanger Rabbit.

Triple Stimulation Rabbit Vibes

All Rabbit vibes offer dual stimulation for both the G-spot or vagina and the clitoris, but triple stimulation rabbit vibes have the benefit of an added stimulator for anal pleasure as well.

The anus is filled with nerve endings just waiting to be pleasured. More and more couples are discovering the pleasures of anal stimulation. If you have interest in exploring anal pleasures, an anal vibrator or a rabbit vibrator with an anal stimulator may be a great place to start. Much like the clitoris, simplest vibrations can bring intense pleasure to the anus.

Before exploring this new world of intimacy, there are several things you should know. First, always use a lot of lubrication. Second, begin anal play slowly. Even external stimulation of the opening of the anus with your finger, tongue, or a vibrator can be pleasurable.

Price: starts at $39.95

Average dimensions: Width: 1-1.5”; Length: 6-6.5”

Who it's best for: Women who like the dual stimulation of a traditional rabbit but seek extra back-door stimulation for outstanding orgasms. Triple stimulation rabbits are recommended for those who have experience with anal toys and anal stimulation. Try a beginner’s anal toy first and if you like it, gradually work your way to a rabbits with anal teasers.

Examples: Night Moves Cyberskin Seduction, Thunderbird Rabbit Vibrator, Seahorse Triple Action Vibrator, 7x Triple Pleasure Seahorse, Triple Fling Rabbit.

Care and Cleaning

Now that you have chosen the rabbit that works best for you, it’s important to take care of your new toy if you want your new gadget to last for many satisfactory experiences. Proper cleaning and care is a must. Here are some simple guidelines:

If using a battery operated vibrator, remove the batteries when not in use. This will guarantee that the batteries do not leak potentially destroying the motor. And with many remote controls, you must remove the battery or the battery power may drain.

Always clean your toys after use. Most vibrators can be cleaned with mild soap and water. Do not fully emerge or soak your toys, and never put them in the dishwasher. Some easy cleaning options include using an anti-bacterial sex toy cleaner such as the Better Sex Essentials Toy Cleaner. Read your user packet that accompanies your vibrator to see its specific needs.

Enjoy Your New Toy!

Now that you know what a rabbit vibe is, how to use it, what types are out there, and how to take care of you new toy, go and find one that fits you best and enjoy it! Life is too short not to have great orgasms!

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Tuesday, February 23, 2010 by Better Sex Web Team

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Triple Clit Flicker

Wednesday, February 10, 2010 by Better Sex Web Team

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Wednesday, February 10, 2010 by Better Sex Web Team

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Using props for better sex positioning

Wednesday, June 3, 2009 by Simon Owens

Sometimes we need a little help achieving that perfect angle for the ultimate pleasure, especially if we’re not terribly flexible. Other times, we’re tired, sore, or injured and need a little support for getting frisky. And occasionally we just want to shake things up and get some strange! Besides the obvious (a bed), almost any piece of furniture can support your athletic eroticism. If you’re inspired by funky positions that you’ve seen in movies, sex guides, or dreamed up yourself, it certainly can’t hurt to get a little support from some props!

Pillows and Cushions

A well-placed pillow or cushion can do amazing things for your sex life. Place a firm cushion under a woman’s hips during missionary, and you’ll help her angle herself for deeper, easier entry and improved angle for G-spot stimulation. A cushion under the belly during doggy-style fun helps her keep her back arched at a good angle without cramping, and the compression of the pillow makes her feel tighter and makes him feel bigger. If she’s on top, riding cowgirl (regular or reverse), the man can lean back on a cushion or back rest pillow, sitting partially upright, which puts him at a great angle to caress her (and for her to get clitoral stimulation as she moves against him). And of course, pillows are great for screaming into when you hit that climax, so you won’t wake the kids or neighbors!

When you’re going for support with a pillow or cushion, look for a firm one. Too much “squishy” means there isn’t enough support, and it will just squash flat instead of lifting you up. Throw pillows (instead of bed pillows) are a great choice, if you happen to have them lying around. There are some terrific, well-designed inflatable cushions designed exactly for sexual positioning purposes. They are heavy-duty, remain firm, and are covered with a nonslip surface so they won’t slide around as you get vigorous.

Chairs and Sofas

Not only are all chairs absolutely great for sitting oral-sex positions, the arm of a sofa might be just the right height to bend over for some comfortably supported doggy style. Ladies, you can sit in a chair with your legs spread wide and your hips rolled under so he can really get at your G-spot (we recommend a padded chair for this!). A comfortable high-back chair is just great for cowgirl or reverse cowgirl positions, because he can sit up, making the angle easier for ladies to rock with their hips (also terrific for clitoral stimulation, which is easier when he is sitting up). A regular dining chair can be helpful, too--ladies can face the seat, put one leg up, rest their arms on the back, and be ready for some standing-up reverse-entry action! Or, get behind the chair, lean over the back, and you can have some more stand-up sex with both legs on the floor. Let’s not forget all the good times you can have on a recliner! Sitting up or fully reclined, you can use most recliners’ rocking motion to augment your own movements. Use the armrests to get leverage, especially if you’re enjoying some woman-on-top positions.

Advanced chair positioning: Women, grab the seat of the chair or armrests, bend over and let him penetrate you from behind. Men, once you’re in, grab her hips and lift so that her legs are wrapped around you and off the floor entirely.

Ottoman or Footstool

Got an ottoman? Oooh, you are in for a treat! Ladies, you can kneel on an ottoman and be at almost a perfect angle (depending on the height of your man!) for some very hot doggy style while he is comfortably standing up! Men, you can sit on the ottoman and let her ride you--it’ll be easier for her to go up and down if she can squat a little to reach you and then rise up. Better yet, fellas, put your hips on the ottoman, and lean your head and shoulders down to the floor so she can really go to town on your straight-at-attention little soldier. Does the ottoman have a rocker in it? If so, your movements will be free and easy, and you can use the back-and-forth motion with your thrusting to get some extra-hot action!

Swings

Perhaps the domain of connoisseurs, sex swings offer a wide range of funky positions with support and some bouncy action thrown in for good measure. Those exotic positions are much easier to achieve (without injury) in a swing. Well-made sex swings have a seat that’s padded and soft supports for hands and feet as well. With a good swing, you can get totally upside down and still be comfortable! Many have a strong steel spring and you can gently (or vigorously) bounce up and down. A particularly fun position to try is to get your lady in the swing so she’s nearly perfectly horizontal, supported, and comfortably spread-eagled in the straps. Then, gentlemen, you can begin by touching and caressing and moving on to some oral sex to get things started. When you are both ready, move her back and forth over your penis at a leisurely pace (you can stand at a comfortable high and adjust the swing appropriately), building speed until you climax. You can both site in the swing, one on top of another, if you don’t exceed the weight limitations.

A really special position only possible in a swing is a spinning penetration. Men, lie down flat on the floor or bed. Ladies get into a sitting position in the swing, with the height adjusted as needed. Use plenty of lube (you’ll need to be slippery), and slide down on his penis, then use the swing to spin 360 degrees around it!

Great Sex Positions for Men

Monday, June 1, 2009 by Simon Owens

Though the goal for couples having sex is for both parties to receive mutual sexual satisfaction, there are certainly sex positions that are more pleasurable for the man or the woman. Often during sex, a couple will experiment with multiple positions, some of which are meant to provide more pleasure for the male while others are done for the benefit of the female. For men, the agility to thrust deeply into a female often maximizes the amount of satisfaction he is able to gain in the bedroom. Below are 10 of the top sex positions for men.

Doggy

A true favorite of many men, doggy position is when the man is behind his partner, both are facing the same direction, she is kneeling on all fours, and he enters her from behind. Usually, this allows the thrusting partner to penetrate quite deeply (be sure she’s really turned on and ready). If you’re on your feet or knees and standing upright, this allows you to thrust in and out quite easily, plus you can grab her hips and help her rock back on your penis. You get a terrific view of her backside, with great opportunity for a little anal play if she agrees.

Pile Driver

Mostly seen in adult films, the pile driver is a slightly complicated position that requires the woman to be almost entirely upside down, frequently propped up by leaning against a bed, with her head and shoulders on the floor. Her legs must be bent so that her feet come near her head, offering an unobstructed path to her fun parts. Generally, the man is standing up and can penetrate her and thrust by bending his knees up and down to create a full-body movement. This position must be done carefully--it’s not always comfortable for the woman, and vigorous activity can easily result in an injury!

Missionary: Legs Up

Missionary position is, of course, a classic. What’s not to love about an aroused woman spread-eagled and ready for action? Missionary allows the man to control the thrusting speed and depth, while getting a lovely view of her breasts and face. An easy adjustment on this position is to take her legs and gently push them up, aiming to put her feet by her ears (make sure her knees bend). Note: Do not force it, she may not be flexible enough! The point is not to actually put her feet up to her ears, but to rotate her hips, making the angle of entry much easier and enabling you to go deeper. An easier way to do it is to put her knees over your shoulders, then your body can help her maintain the angle. This will help your penis stroke her G-spot as you go in and out. (Terrific position for oral sex, as well!)

Cowgirl, Sitting Up

Feeling lazy? Let her ride you! Cowgirl position (woman on top) is a great way to let her control the pace of your action. It also leaves your hands free for stroking and touching, plus you get a great view of her body! If you’re sitting up slightly (in a chair or propped up against a cushion), she can control the action simply by rotating her hips, instead of hopping up and down. Also, this angle lets her get some wonderful stimulation to her clitoris, making it much easier for her to orgasm during sex.

Standing Up

If you can manage to do it standing up, showers with your lover can become a lot more interesting! Standing up sex, whether facing your partner or from behind, broadens your options for doing it anytime, anywhere. Because men generally are taller than women, it makes the action fairly easy--you’ll just be bending your knees to stroke down, and then standing up straight to thrust in and up. Help her out: If you’re facing her, lift one of her legs up with your arm, and hook your elbow under her knee (this angle helps her keep her hips rotated toward you). If you are strong enough, pick her up and carry her around while bouncing her around a bit.

Spooning

A lot like standing-up sex, only lying down. Got some morning wood, but still not fully awake? Enjoy the lazy, sleepy, sweetly sexy time with some slow, relaxed foreplay. Caress her from behind, get her all hot and ready, and then go to town. She may need to lift her top leg to give you the best access. Help her out by holding it with your arm--muscle cramps are no fun in the middle of sex.

Doggy: The Wheelbarrow

A more athletic variation of doggy-style, the wheelbarrow involves grabbing your partner’s legs and lifting so that she can wrap her legs around the small of your back. You’ll be supporting her weight on your hips and grabbing her under the hips or thighs to help with your thrusting. She’ll be holding herself up with her hands, or possibly leaning down with her head and upper chest on a flat surface. This position is easier to achieve with a little support, like an ottoman or chair.

The Lap Dance

Re-create the gentleman’s club at home! Sit in a chair (naked of course), and let your partner do her seductive dance and striptease. When she’s ready, she can climb on your lap, turned around so she’s not facing you (essentially, this is reverse cowgirl in a chair). She can bounce up and down, while you have both hands free to stroke and caress. Even better: Make sure there’s a mirror nearby so you can have a great view of her body and her pleasure ride!

Kneeling Missionary

As you kneel down and rock back on your heels, you can grab your partner and lift her onto your lap, so her legs come over your hips. She then leans back and props herself up on her arms so that most of her body is in the air. This puts you right at nipple-sucking level, plus it’s extremely easy to rock her back and forth on your penis.

Sitting/Standing Combo

In this fun position, she is sitting (on a stool, chair, table, or countertop) and you are standing. Terrific for a quickie when she’s really turned on! She is spread-eagled, upright, and facing you. Tip: Start with some hot oral sex on her before moving on. You can enter her easily when she’s sitting at the very edge of the seat. If she curls her hips under, the angle of entry is pleasing for both of you.

Sex Toys for Women

Monday, June 1, 2009 by Simon Owens

Women’s Top 10: A Countdown of the 10 Best Pleasure Toys for Women

Sex toys are like cars. There are real basic models designed to get you from point A to point B, and then there are more advanced models with all the bells and whistles. They all have the same basic role, but some will get you there faster, run smoother, and have more style to them.

Whether you are a first-time erotic toy shopper or if you have been enjoying them for years, the other great thing is that, like cars, there is always a newer, stronger, better model being introduced. So how do you keep up?

Look no further! Here are the top 10 sex toys that every woman has just got to have in her sexual repertoire. These are the cream of the crop best sellers with the best reviews from very satisfied customers.

Number 10: Remote Control Butterfly Vibrator

The versatility of this wearable product is what sets it apart. Strap it on for self pleasuring or surrender and give your partner the controls. The remote has a 15 to 20 foot range so you will never know when your lover might zap some pleasure your way. Use it as foreplay or as a treat all its own. One reviewer even wears it to work. As a flight attendant she has worn it on the plane and at restaurants without being caught. Your imagination is the only limit to where and how you will experience the pleasure of this Butterfly’s flickering wings of delight.

Number 9: CyberSkin Slimline Realistic Dildo

This dildo is called “realistic” for a good reason. With a 7.5 inch shaft with a 1.5 inch girth, it is strong enough to get the job done. Take it to the bath or shower for some wet and wild loving, or use it with a partner to fulfill a double penetration fantasy. The latex allows for easy soap and water cleanup, and the battery-free unit means there are no concerns of it running out of juice before you do. Since it is not as large as some of its counterparts, the Slimline is a great choice for even the novice dildo user.

Number 8: Evolved Bliss

The silky waves on this toy make it a great addition to any sexual pleasure box. The three speeds of vibration are easily managed with a single pushbutton on the end. It is waterproof and ideally designed for bath or shower play. Let each luscious bump take you a little further into your pleasure zone. Beautifully designed and available in either pink or lavender, this vibrator is hard to beat.

Number 7: Synergy

The Better Sex Synergy Pleasure System’s five head design gives you a handful of unique ways to experience intense climaxes in one device. Whether taking a hop on the wild side with the bunny ears, sucking your sweet spot with the suction cup, using the nubs for pointed pleasure, searching for hidden treasure with the G spot attachment or sticking with the powerful but traditional ball tip… the Synergy System is designed with your pleasure in mind.

Number 6: 16 Function Rabbit Super Vibrator

The name says it all. One of the most popular bunnies around, the Super Vibrator has 16 different settings to please even the most discriminating woman. The 7 inch shaft with penis shaped head rubs all the right places as it rotates and massages. When you are ready for Round 2 but your partner is not, grab the Super Rabbit and keep the momentum alive! Used alone or with a partner, this rabbit’s 10 modes and 4 levels of vibration will have you screaming in delight.

Number 5: Lelo Nea

This sleek little pleaser is a tiger in disguise. Its stylish design and porcelain-like finish makes it beautiful, but its intensity makes it the go-to sex toy for all who have the pleasure of using it. The rechargeable battery is ready to go out of the box, and the guarded power switch eliminates accidental battery drains. This toy is so quiet and compact that you can use it anywhere without being discovered. Buzz team member Mrs. Bush recounted a steamy encounter in her review that is bound to get the imagination frolicking for previously uncharted pleasure locations. This toy asks not only what it can do for you, but where, how often, and for how long!

Number 4: B3 Onye Vibrator

Heralded as the best vibrator that Sinclair sells by reviewers Mr. and Mrs. Blaze, this beautiful masterpiece is a must-have. Measuring 4.5 inches long, the Onye is great for internal or external use. The non-slip grip helps you control the thrust, and the 3 speeds and 5 vibration patterns give users a variety of ways to climax. The elegant packaging helps keep the toy clean so it will be ready every time you are. Available in pink on white or black on black, the B3 is as pretty to look at as it is to explore.

Number 3: Evolved Duality

The unique design of this sex toys sets it apart from the pack. Basically two toys in one, Evolved Duality allows you to pick your own pleasure. One end’s pointed tip is ideal for spot-on clit stimulation or as a G-spot vibrator. The opposite end boasts waves of pleasure that can be used to massage the labia and clit externally, or inserted one bump at a time for an entirely different experience. The extraordinary length makes gripping it easy, and the 16 functions will keep you coming back for more. With Duality, choosing your pleasure is part of the fun.

Number 2: Platinum Jack Rabbit

Platinum describes much more than just the appearance of this master of all rabbits. This beauty is loaded with 6 speeds and 7 functions that are sure to please both first-time rabbit users and more experienced connoisseurs. Whether using it alone or with a partner, the revolving penis-shaped tip, rotating pleasure beads, and vibrating bunny ears are sure to please. For a little added adventure, reverse the hold and let the bunny ears tickle the anus for a whole new experience. Or use the Platinum Jack Rabbit with a partner to fulfill a double penetration fantasy. Any way you choose to use it, you are sure to find complete satisfaction.

Number 1: We-Vibe

Named the Best Toy of 2008 by BetterSex.com and the Toy of the Year by Talk Sex with Sue Johanson, this revolutionary toy is rocking the pleasure toy world. The breakthrough design of the We-Vibe is excellent for clitoral and G-spot stimulation, but it can also be warn during intercourse for even more intense pleasure for both partners. Rechargeable and waterproof, the We-Vibe is ideal for solo or couples play. After its initial 24-hour charge, two hours of passion await! With a 2 speed motor that operates at 5000 RPM, this gadget is sure to please.

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