Nietzsche's Valentine's

Thursday, February 4, 2010 by Martin Smith

Better Sex Valentine Heart Picture and Link
Find Trouble This Valentine's Day

A favorite philosopher, German Friedrich Nietzsche 1844 - 1900, believed life was well lived in troubled or difficult times. Trouble from relationship issues, health crisis or economic challenge press us to live life fully Nietzsche believed. The famous Nietzschian Superman is any man (or woman) who welcomes life’s challenges living to tell the story :). Any and all actions become victories. Victory from acting when action seems impossible. Triumphs is any step toward a greater understanding of our nature. Empathy grows our ability to love.

I didn’t understand Nietzsche in college. Getting to class on time was my biggest challenge. Not a very arduous goal. Wish I could send my younger self a message across thirty years. Every class is a special moment; cherish them. Life's tragic comedy is it can only be understood backwards while time's arrow only goes in one direction - forward.  

Every life has challenge. The ubiquity of Lance Armstrong’s yellow bracelets spoke to 10,000,000 people, their friends and families living with cancer. I am one of those ten million. I mention this only to illustrate getting to class on time seems a tiny challenge now. Watch Facing Ali (links to my review on ScentTrail), an excellent caring documentary about boxers to discover Supermen Nietzsche would recognize. Every life is, at least metaphorically, like a boxer's life.

Nietzsche and other modern thinkers such as Robert Wright (NonZero) and Eckhart Tolle (New Earth and Power of Now) and Michael Shermer (Mind of the Market) and Dan Gilbert (Stumbling on Happiness) understand our capacity to face challenge is infinite. We think something will kill us, but it makes us stronger. Anything that doesn't kill you makes you strong is another famous Nietzsche idea.

Valentine?
You are probably wondering what this has to do with Valentine’s Day. If you’ve been with your partner longer than it takes to read this post, you’ve triumphed against adversity. You’ve beaten back forces of habituation that can shrink perception of lovers, partners, husbands and wives to entertainment, distraction or worse. As Alex Baldwin’s Captain Ellerby so accurately states in The Departed (speaking of marriage), “you’ve proven someone else can stand you” even if only for today (lol).

Nietzsche’s Valentine would wish your wife, lover or partner enough adversity so they know themselves. Offering your sure presence and support, just being there, may be the best Valentine’s Day present your significant other can receive. Do we too easily take life and our partner’s for granted? You bet, but this February 14th become a Hero, a Nietzschian Superman, who lives in the moment, fully appreciates his gifts (or her gifts) and stands reading for whatever trouble rolls in.

Happy Valentine’s Day, and thanks for ongoing support,  

Martin
Msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com

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Better Sex Erotic Fiction Semifinals Week 1

Wednesday, February 3, 2010 by Martin Smith

Three Story Horse Race
The first week of the Better Sex Erotic Fiction Semifinals is a horse race. Here are current standings:

Vote for your favorite story!
Just Browsing 35.7%
The Grass is Greener 34.9%
Hot for Teacher 11.1%
The Curator 5.6%
A Little Knowledge 4.0%
Judy 3.2%
A Present for Sam 3.2%
Roadside Pick Me Up 2.4%

3 Stories with the most votes become finalist, so VOTE TODAY for your favorite.

Buying A Sex Toy...For Her

Tuesday, February 2, 2010 by Martin Smith
Top 5 Tips For Buying Sex Toys For Women
This post helps men buy sex toys for women by providing specific buying tips. Buying sex toys for her can be a challenge. Since it is a week before Valentine and thousands of men are searching BetterSex.com for just the right sex toy to celebrate love, connection and better sex we share five buying tips to help men make good decisions when buying sex toys for her.

Buying Sex Toys For Women Tip 1: Think About Her
Being honest we men admit to a tendency toward solipsism. Here is how Wikipedia defines Solipsism, "Solipsism is the philosophical idea that one's own mind is all that exists." Sound familiar? Solipsism is a human trait, but today's post is about men buying sex toys for women. Our first tip is THINK ABOUT HER before deciding on a sex toy. Don't think about what she does that excites you, and we realize writing that sentence means every man reading this post is now thinking about what their partners do that excites them. < pause, reflect, come back to reading> We mean think about her physiological response to sexual stimulation. Take our Buying Sex Toys For Her Quiz:

Buying Sex Toys For Her Quiz
1. Does your partner like cunnilingus (aka oral sex for women)? Yes | No

2. Does your partner like vaginal stimulation during cunnilingus? Yes | No

3. Does your partner orgasm during sexual intercourse? Yes | No

4. Does your partner Orgasm only when her clitoris is stimulated? Yes | No

5. Does your partner have multiple orgasms? Yes | No

6. Is your partner very orgasmic (has orgasms easily)? Yes | No

7. Does your partner orgasm within a certain routine? Yes | No

8. Has your partner ever faked an orgasm (to the best of your knowledge)? Yes | No

9. Can your partner find her g-spot? Yes | No

10. If your partner can find her g-spot, does she like g-spot stimulation? Yes | No

Scoring our Buying Sex Toy For Her Quiz is easy. Add one point for every yes and take one point away for every no. Maximum score is 10, minimum score is - 10. We refer to our Buying Sex Toys For Her Quiz throughout this post.


We-Vibe Coulples VibratorBuying Sex Toys For Women Tip 2: We-Vibe
Since a man's penis doesn't have a 90 degree angle, stimulating a woman's g-spot with a penis can be difficult. We cover stimulating her g-spot in several adult sex education features: Unlocking the Secrets of the G-Spot, The Bette Sex Video Series and Art of Sex Positions, but sex toys provide help. If you answered YES to questions 9. and 10. pay attention.

The We-vibe, 2008's Better Sex Toy of the Year, is a new category of sex toy. The We-Vibe is designed to be worn by her during intercourse providing simultaneous stimulation to his penis and her g-spot and clitoris, also known as THE BIG THREE. If you answered NO to question 3 (Does your partner orgasm during sexual intercourse) as many of our We-Vibe reviewers did BEFORE trying this powerful new sex toy you may answer YES after including We-Vibe in love making.  

We-Vibe and our We-Vibe Couples Sex Kit (special price with Free Better Sex Essentials personal lubricant) was our best selling sex toy in 2009!


Buying Sex Toys For Women Tip 3: Rabbits
If you scored your partner low on our Buying Sex Toys For Her Quiz you have a couple of ways to go. You can introduce toys slowly and carefully. See Buying Sex Toys For Women Tip 4: Cock Rings for where I would start if you are taking it slow. Your other choices is to jump into the deep end of the sex toy pool to see if massive stimulation shakes her tree. The best source for massive simultaneous stimulation of her clitoris and g-spot is a rabbit vibrator.

Most men don't watch Sex and the City, in fact someone threatened to punch me in the face after I wrote a review of the Sex and the City movie in ScentTrail (my bog). The Rabbit Revolution was started on Sex and the City by the show's Charlotte character. Charlotte locked herself in her apartment and played with her rabbit for days. Easy to understand such a response. Apply vibration simultaneously to many women's g-spots and clitorises and explosive orgasms ensue. There are now HUNDREDS of rabbit vibrators,  Here are three recommendations:

Platinum Jack Rabbit VibratorPlatinum Jack Rabbit
Platinum Jack Rabbit takes advantage of several waves of rabbit innovation. Every rabbit we sell has something good about it as our reviews attest, but diving off this particular board shows your love. Normally this is a $89 Rabbit, but we have it on sale for Valentine's Day. It will be $67.45 until February 15th, so you can afford to buy platinum for less for another week. Solid ergonomics, good balance, easy to use control panel and Cal Exotics excellent attention to detail make Platinum Jack Rabbit a great high end choice to start stimulation. 

Noturnal Emmissions Rabbit Vibrator
Dream Maker Nocturnal Emissions Vibrator
This is the Rabbit to buy if she already likes rabbits. The innovative sliding discs instead of the normal pearls make g-spot stimulation a new adventure according to our Better Sex Buzz Team reviewers. Dream Maker is taking off. Only in stock since November sales and reviews indicate the g-spot stimulation innovation this rabbit creates is setting a new standard. 



16 Function Rabbit Vibrator
16 Function Rabbit Super Vibrator
I love this vibrator because it is a creation of our Better Sex Buzz Team. When we shipped a handful of 16 Function Rabbit Supers out to our best Better Sex Buzzers and received powerful, specific and adoring reviews. This mid-priced rabbit has sophisticated control over its durable motor. This rabbit has the most going on yet its control panel is intuitive and easy to use. Last thing you want when you are about to orgasm is to wonder what control does what. This rabbit isn't set it and forget BECAUSE it is easy to let it pace your partner's arousal. 


Buying Sex Toys For Women Tip 4: Cock Rings
If a man's penis doesn't typically have a 90 degree angle for g-spot stimulation it is also missing any ability to reach up and tickle her clitoris. Her clitoris is looking down on your penis dying to be included in the party. Cock rings include her clitoris in a teasing, now you get a little stimulation now you don't, way. These vibrating cock rings have some erection assistance (they may help trap some blood in a man's penis), but their main function is application of vibration to his penis and her clitoris during sex. Only someone who has never worn a cock ring would wonder why someone would want to do that. If you answered Yes to questions 1 and 4 then one of these vibrating cock rings is for you:

Screaming O Cock Ring Picture and Link
Screaming O Cock Ring
I loved the review on this product that said we kept the price low on this cock ring to convince our customer to buy more expensive cock rings like those listed below. We didn't set out with that in mind, but, not soon after reading that review, we started giving away Screaming O Cock Rings to fuel the Cock Ring Revolution I wrote about several years ago. Giving these "disposable" cock rings away was like tossing jet fuel on burning embers. Sales of the next two cock rings went through the roof. Makes us sound like cock ring dealers, which I guess we are, but we don't want anyone to get hooked on explosive orgasms. No really, we are just here to help (lol).


Silicone Triple Orgasm Cock Ring Picture and Link  

Silicone Triple Orgasm Cock Ring
If Screaming O is the starter this cock ring is the gasoline. Two bullets located above and below his penis stimulate her clitoris and both partners perineum, the area from penis or vagina to anus, to perfection. These are 45 caliber bullets and the Silicone Triple Orgasm is the most flexible of our cock rings. Flexibility means you can move it around easily or SHE can move it around easily without it feeling like your penis just got ripped off (not something you really want to do or feel :).




Double Dolphin Cock Ring
Double Dolphin Cock Ring
Double Dolphin's material is stiffer than Silicone Triple or Screaming O. Stiffer material is not better or worse. It just is. Double Dolphin's bullets tend to have a more determined path than Silicone Triple, but you can still bend and move the bullets to where you want them for maximum orgasmic effect. Bullets are more recessed and this can be good or bad depending on your and your partner's body. The differences between Silicone Triple and Double D are largely personal preferences. We have customers who swear by each. Read the reviews on each page and make a call. All purchases are backed by our industry leading 90 Day Satisfaction Guarantee, so try it and if you don't like we will credit you so you can keep trying until you find the cock ring you and she love.  


Buying Sex Toys For Women Tip 5: Clitoral Stimulation
Does your partner ONLY orgasm with clitoral stimulation. This is not unusual, but you want to make sure you have ways to stimulate her clitoris. Yes you already have several good clitoral simulators (fingers, tongue, toes, whatever), but we sell thousands of Clitoral Vibrators to help including:

G gasm delight clitral vibrator
G-Gasm Delight Vibrator
I start small and cheap with clitoral stimulation and work upscale. A woman's clitoris is so sensitive normally you don't need jack hammers to stimulate her to powerful orgasms. This little smooth headed vibrator keeps it simple and thousands swear by it. At $20 what is the worst thing that happens? BTW, we GIVE G-Gasms away every now and again (like the two weeks before Valentine's Day). You can have this $20 vibe for FREE when you purchase at least $24.00 on BetterSex.com. We always note CURRENT FREE GIFT when we are giving away the G-Gasm so you don't buy it too. Why do we give it away? Must not be any good right? Wrong, we give it way so, like the Screaming O, you buy the $100 clitoral vibrator in a month (lol). I guess we are orgasm dealers after all :).

Evolved Bliss Clitoral Vibrators
Evolved Bliss Clitoral Vibrators
Evolved Bliss vibrators do its name proud. These little vibrators are softer than G-Gasm and a tad more ergonomic. We have them on sale through Valentine's Day, but even their regular price $29.95 doesn't break the bank. What is your partner's pleasure worth? Priceless right? Bliss received a rare 5 heart rating from the Better Sex Buzz Team.






B3 Onye Clitoral Vibrators Picture
B3 Onye Vibrator
These clitoral simulators belong in the Museum of Modern Art's design wing. Their elegance belies hidden orgasmic power. Visual beauty is the first step to clitoral stimulation. B3 Onye delivers enough visual beauty powerful orgasms aren't far off. What did Pavlov's dogs do when he rang the dinner bell? If you said they salivated then you actually paid attention in Psych 101 and, as your reward, we've discounted B3 through Valentine. You tell us if she doesn't pre-orgasm the minute B3 comes out of its elegant silk case.


We hope this long post helps you buy sex toys for her this Valentine or whenever. You can't make a wrong decision on BetterSex.com. If you don't like any purchase we will provide a refund or credit if you want to try the next toy on our list. Eventually, you will find one, two or five sex toys you love. We hope we are there to help you search and support your purchase.

Peace, thanks for your ongoing support and have a happy Valentine's Day,

Martin
Msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com

Read Facing Ali's Magic about the magical documentary Facing Ali on ScentTrail, my personal blog.
 


Better Sex Erotic Fiction Semifinals Starts Today!

Monday, February 1, 2010 by Martin Smith


15 Stories Square Off In Semifinals
After thousands of votes and hundreds of stories the Better Sex Erotic Fiction Contest will be decided in the next few weeks. Here is what will be happening:

Feb 1 - 7th = 8 Stories vie for community votes.
Feb 8th - 14th = 7 stories vie for community votes on BetterSex.com

Cast Your Vote Here

Monday February 15 = Grand Prize Winner determined by 3 Judge panel

Submit Your Erotic Story To Our Next Contest
We are working on the 7th Better Sex Erotic Fiction contest for summer 2010, send your 3,000 word or less erotic fiction story to siiweb(at)BetterSex(dot)com with "Erotic Fiction Entry" in the subject.  Release forms for our next contest have not been created yet, but we never publish a story to our site without our Limited Release form . How we use stories and protect writers is outlined in our Limited Release (writers never give up their copyrights in our contests, we pay for the right to use weekly winning stories in clearly defined ways and we return profits to authors).

$2,000 Grand Prize Rides On Your Vote
Our community decides the 3 stories from which we will select our Better Sex Erotic Fiction Contest #6 winner, so please vote now.

Cast Your Vote Now

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STD Test Express

Thursday, January 21, 2010 by Martin Smith
My friend Dr. Mitch Tepper shared a cool site with me today. STD Test Express has created a cool site placing STD control and privacy in its customer's hands. Great idea and Kudos to this new site:

Go to.... STD Test Express


Did you know January 12th was Tiger STD testing day? We didn't either. If we were regular readers of UnZipped, STD Express Test's funny blog we would have. Check it out.







Go to UnZipped Sexual Health Blog Link

Always remember, in the unforgettable words of National Lampoon's Van Wilder, "Don't be a fool, wrap your tool." Let's be safe out there and GET TESTED now that STD Express Test has made it so private and easy.

Martin
Msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com

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Win $10,000 Worth Of Sex Toys Online

Thursday, January 21, 2010 by Martin Smith
Better Sex Ultimate Sex Toy Valentine Giveaway

Click Here to.... Enter Valentine Sex Toy Contest Now

Ultimate Valentine Sex Toy Giveaway
Sex Toys are happening. Last January Oprah featured Dr. Laura Berman discussing the Berman Sex Toy Line. Hollywood includes sex toys in plot lines. The Vibra Panty scene in The Ugly Truth staring Grey's Anatomy's Katherine Heigl is hilarious. Rule of thumb when wearing secret clitoral stimulating vibrators be careful with the remote (lol). Adult Sex Toys and Vibrators are all the rage because they work.

Not everyone knows or has experienced how magical vibration applied to erogenous zones produces power orgasms. This means sex toys are self reinforcing. They create their own powerful benefit. Sex toy trial is conversion. We like to give thousands of dollars of toys away FREE because trial is conversion. Sounds a little like we are sex toy dealers, but we think of our mission as teaching, helping and sharing Better Sex Buzz Team reviews. Back in the day I sold M&M's. One of the company's owners famously said a monkey could sell M&M's at a sales meeting. You can imagine how such a statement motivated the thousand or so sales associates in attendance :). 

Once a sex toy is in your hand it sells itself or not. Sex and sexuality is personal. What works for one customer may or may not work for you. Sex Toy Reviews are tremendously helpful. Here is an example from Puss N Boots, a Better Sex Buzz Team member on the Better Sex Toy of the Year in 2009:

Puss N Boots on 4/4/2009

We love the We-Vibe!
Have you ever wanted to turn your partners cock into a rabbit style g-spot vibe? With this you can! The fun doesn’t stop there either because your partner will love your new vibrating pussy! This is definitely the best couples toy we’ve ever used and we can’t say enough good things about it. The two speed slide activator can be a bit tricky at first as well as the charging port but once you’ve got these down, you’re ready to enjoy an experience unlike any other! It’s comfortable for her to wear too because it’s flexible yet, retains its shape. We both loved the highest vibration setting but she did crave a bit more on her clit. It was, however, powerful enough to produce some very intense orgasms that rendered her into a quivering pile of mush! His only problem was that these new found sensations proved too much for him the first couple of go rounds and he just couldn’t last as long. Of course that wasn’t a bad thing for him because it just felt so good! Along with all of these wonderful sensations, there is no smell and it’s fairly quiet. There was definitely a lot of thought and effort put into the making of this little toy and in case you’re wondering, it really is small enough to fit inside your vagina along with your partners penis or even a dildo for that matter. It even comes with its own little inconspicuous storage case that is reminiscent of an eyeglass case. We are very pleased with this purchase and would definitely buy it again! If you haven’t tried one yet, you have no idea what you’ve been missing out on. We’re glad we didn’t wait any longer and we highly recommend it!
 

Never tried a sex toy? Here are some great places to start:

Sex Toys for Couples

Cock Rings Beginners = Screaming O, Advanced = Silicone Triple Orgasm Cock Ring 

Sex Toys for Men

Beginners = Lucid Dream #14, Advanced = Rocks Off Rude Boy

Sex Toys for Women

Beginners = any Rabbit Vibrator, Advanced = 16 Function Rabbit Super Vibrator

What is your favorite Sex Toy?
If you have a moment tell us the story of your favorite sex toy. Send emails to siiweb(at)BetterSex(dot)com with "sex toy story" in the subject. 

Enter The Ultimate Valentine Sex Toy Giveaway

Over 200 people have entered our Ultimate Sex Toy contest. We start giving away sex toys on February 1st, so ENTER TODAY and Good Luck. 

Martin
Msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com

Latest posts on ScentTrail, my personal blog include my pick for the top 5 e-commerce product pages. BetterSex is not on there but we are working on it :). and Ten Reasons Being Sick Sucks (Got sick on my birthday 1.1. and am just feeling better now). Hope you are feeling great and having better sex. M.  

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Better Sex Valentine

Friday, January 15, 2010 by Martin Smith

Better Sex Valentine Heart Graphic
We think of Valentine's Day as our holiday. In our meetings about Valentine's Day 2010 we wanted to share ways our customers could be heroes this February 14th. Here is what we came up with:

Deal of the Day
Every day something special is happening. We are giving best sellers away, slashing prices on innovative new products and doing anything we can to help couples connect. It is our mission and we are sticking to it.

Biggest Valentine Sale
We are having our biggest Valentine sale ever this year with over 400 products up to 70% off.

Valentine Giveaway
We asked our coolest manufacturers to help us assist our customers and they stepped up to the plate with products we can give away, but only if you sign up and double opt-in. You must double opt in to win.

Be A Hero Article
My thoughts on how you can be a "Love Hero" on Valentine's Day or any other day. 

Take Our Valentine Poll
How will you be a hero this Valentine? Take our Valentine's poll and see how many others share your better sex Valentine ideas. 

Vote For Erotic Fiction in our Fiction Contest
We are coming down to the last few weeks for our current Fiction Contest. Be sure to vote for your favorite stories. Semifinals start Monday, February 1st. 

Sign Up for Military Corner Savings
It is tough to be away from home every day but especially on 2.14. Military Corner is going strong with almost $3,000 in savings and 500 military sign ups. We will be adding Military Spouses soon too We are also working on a "Military Wall" were customers can share thoughts of encouragement and support. 

Haiti Relief = Give One of your 2 Free Gifts at checkout
We are adding an option for customers to donate one of their 2 Free Gifts to Haiti Earthquake relief. We've raised almost $800 for Breast Cancer and over $1,000 for DKT's global humanitarian work. We will be making our donation to President Bill Clinton's 4 star rated foundation. When you are asked to select your 2 Free gifts on the last page of check out click on Haiti Relief and we will anonymously add your donation to our check. 

Thanks again for everyone's support, encouragement and ideas. Have a Happy Better Sex Valentine. 

Martin
msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com

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Why I Love The Military

Thursday, December 17, 2009 by Martin Smith
Better Sex Military Corner Graphic

Best Holiday Wish For Military Around The World

Sat down today and had an epiphany. I get to be me thanks to sacrifice others are making (or have made). Here is a little of what I just wrote:

I love the military because of WHAT it means to serve. Think of it. Men and women around the world are in strange places cupping a smoke, tucking chins into coats unsure of what may come in the next moment. No one does such a thing, makes such a sacrifice, for money. Love is the only power strong enough to create such devotion.

I love every man and woman in every military because they’ve freely given our most precious gift – time. Incredibly they give life’s most precious jewels to an abstract idea. They give their gifts at the altar of service to country, service to me, you, your family and friends. Hallelujah by Jeff Buckley just shuffled up appropriately on my iPod. Sometimes my iPod is spooky. Hallelujah is a beautiful song and the right word.
Read rest of Why I Love The Military
 
400 Military Sign Ups....so far!
Almost 400 service men and women have signed up to our Better Sex Military Corner saving almost $2,000!!! We wanted to help military save $1,000 this holiday season. We are glad we will beat our goal.

Army - 145
Air Force - 105
Navy - 68
Marines - 30
National Guard - 15
Coast Guard - 9

Active or Retired Military Sign Up To Save Now

Be safe and know we are thinking of you. We couldn't be us without you doing what you are doing. We understand and appreciate your sacrifice and devotion.

Thanks,

Martin
Msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com

Germ Free Travel on ScentTrail Marketing = I took steps to NOT get sick during my recent trip to San Francisco. How strange is it to wear a mask on an airplane? Strange, but I didn't get sick so well worth it! Read other Germ Free Travel tips on ScentTrail, my personal blog.

Also posted on Levitt and Dubner's new SuperFreakonomics fun with marketing statistics book and an interest ting conversation between Charlie Rose and a brilliant software engineer, lawyer, philosopher Alexander Karp Scary Smart.

 

Fraud Hits Better Sex Erotic Fiction Contest

Monday, December 14, 2009 by Martin Smith
Better Sex Erotic Fiction Contest Graphic

Scripting Vote Fraud Nullifies Week 9 Erotic Fiction Results

Results from Week 9 of the Better Sex Fiction Contest are suspended due to massive vote scripting. Scripting, o automatic voting via computers, is normally detected by our voting algorithm. Last week our "something is wrong" notice failed and we didn't see the vote fraud until results review on Monday morning. It appears hackers got inside our firewall and ruined natural voting patterns for all 3 erotic stories. Fraud pushed last week's vote count to 10X normal. We've taken steps to prevent vote fraud and will rerun The Cleaning Lady, A Night To Remember and Happy Ending during the 1.25 to 1.31 last week of the Better Sex Erotic Fiction Contest.
 
Vote Now For Heatwave or Screen Kiss or Plural Possessive - Week 10

Better Sex Erotic Fiction Contest Semifinals Date Change
Since we've added an extra week of stories and community voting Semifinal Voting will take place FOR ALL STORIES the week of February 1st. Three stories with the most votes during this week will move to the finals. Finals include a nonbinding community vote and cash awards from a 3 judge panel. Judges always award our final cash prizes. 

Make A Note: Semifinal Voting Starts Monday February 1st.  

"Fiction" Code Suspended
We've had to suspend special discounts associated with "Fiction". This code, provided to submitting writers, was picked up by a coupon web site and spammed to non-writers. We will establish a new writer-only code soon and email to participants. Please note use of "fiction" no longer provides a special writer discount at BetterSex.com.

Erotic Fiction 4 & 5 Book With Designer
Fiction Contests 4 and 5 were combined into one book and our designer is working on layout. We hope to have the book in inventory by Valentine's 2010.

Thanks,

Martin
msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com

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New Better Sex Essential Personal Lubricant Monster Packs

Friday, December 11, 2009 by Martin Smith

Better Sex Essentials Lubricant Monster Packs Graphic and link

New Essentials Monster Packs Buy 2 Get 1 Free or
New Essentials Monster Packs Buy 4 Get 2 Free


Better Sex Essentials Tribe
Readers of my marketing blog, ScentTrail Marketing, know how much I obsess about online marketing. I've been selling one thing or another since I graduated from college (a very quick almost 30 years ago). I love connecting, tell a product's story, listening to customer feedback and getting better. I especially love flukes.

Better Sex Essentials, our personal lubricant line, isn't a fluke but what happened may be. Big companies and brands started invading this space recently. Sexual Health is going mainstream and large pharmaceutical companies don't want to be left out. We wanted to compete, but the challenge seemed overwhelming. It seemed like climbing Everest alone with no ropes or oxygen, but our team took a David vs. Goliath attitude and may have created the best personal lubricant on planet earth. 

NEW ESSENTIALS MONSTER PACKS

Buy 3 Essentials Liquid Lubricant Get 1 Free
Buy 4 Essentials Liquid Lubricant Get 2 Free

Is Better Sex Essentials Liquid Lubricant The Best Personal Lubricant In The World?
I'm writing an article about how we may have created the best sexual lube in the world for next week. I won't spoil it here, but stay tuned to take our poll and read the article.

Martin
msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com
 

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Better Sex Holiday Shipping

Friday, December 11, 2009 by Martin Smith
Better Sex Free Shipping Graphic and link



2 Day Shipping Needed Now For 12.25
We've past the time when using the Post Office is a good idea. BetterSex.com's "Standard Shipping" option is not guaranteed to get your purchase to you by Christmas. Selecting 2-Day Shipping until 12.21 is a MUST.

Free Shipping At $75...for a limited time
Our regular Free 2 Day Shipping "trigger" is set at $89.00. We understand the economy sucks and shipping charges don't help improve your love life. We lowered our 2 Day Free trigger to $75 yesterday. Not sure how long we can afford to keep a lower trigger, but we will keep it there for now. There are many advantages to 2-Day shipping including:
  • Tracking Numbers
  • Faster Picking
  • Maximum 3 Days from order to your door
$6.00 Upgrade to 2-Day
Most Bette Sex orders are over $60. We set our Free Standard Shipping trigger at $59.00. Customers who order at least $59.00 can upgrade to 2 Day for $6.00. BetterSex.com is unique with this low cost upgrade to 2 Day. Most sites charge the full UPS cost for upgrades even after an order qualifies for free standard shipping). We lose a little money to UPS, but many customers like to upgrade for tracking and speed even when there isn't a looming deadline like 12.25.

UPGRADE NEEDED NOW FOR 12.25

If your order is below Free 2 Day trigger (currently $75) but above $59 it qualifies for $6.00 upgrade IF YOU SELECT IT. About half of our customers who who qualify for Free Standard Shipping also upgrade, but don't forget to SELECT 2 DAY DURING CHECK OUT:

MUST SELECT 2 DAY UPS DURING CHECK OUT DURING CHECKOUT


Better Sex Check Out Example Graphic

Example of Check Out with 2 UPS Highlighted and Free Standard Shipping identified.

Shop Better Sex's  Biggest Holiday Sale Now!

Good luck, we hope you get EVERYTHING your love life needs this holiday season.

Martin
msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com

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Cock Ring Revolution II

Tuesday, December 1, 2009 by Martin Smith
Cock Ring Revolution Graphic
Cock Ring Revolutionaries
Several years ago I wrote a prescient article. Cock Ring, sometimes called love rings, sales were going crazy. Money alone rarely makes me think we are in the middle of a revolution. Powerfully positive reviews, on the other hand, confirmed something new was being discovered, something was happening.  

Read Cock Ring Revolution Article

There is a lot I would change about the article. Sometimes it is fun to just let your first efforts stand. Looking back is entering a time warp. The interesting thing about NOW is how right we where THEN.

A customer just asked about why some love rings have testicle straps. Here is how I explained it:

Dear E from Oregon:

Testicle straps augment a cock ring’s ability to hold blood in the penis.

Some like how testicle straps push a man’s testicles to a more active position, but their main purpose is to help retain blood and thus an erection. As we age some things are not as tight as in our youth J. One of these things is the valve that keeps blood in a penis. That valve gets rusty (or full of plaque) and blood may move out of the penis too easily. Cock rings help keep blood in the penis to a varying degree.

Some rings such as Silicone Triple Orgasm are more about pleasure than ED efficacy  The efficacy of a ring like the Double Dolphin or Silicone Triple is small, the pleasure large (for him and her) according to our Better Sex Buzz Team reviews. There may be some small blood holding benefit, but “pleasure” rings like Double Dolphin and Silicone Triple are not really meant to keep blood in a penis. Pleasure love rings simultaneously place vibration on his penis and testicles and her clitoris.

Vibration in places where vibration has never been felt before feels great. Vibration is the 86,000 pound Gorilla driving sex toy sales through the roof. And, designers are getting very creative with how to apply vibration to new places (just look at the We-Vibe where vibration finds it way into her vagina and his penis during intercourse).  

Others such as our 5 snap leather cock ring are about keeping blood in. The leather is a little old school, but some like its strength. Others like molded rings such as our Erectus Magna ring set.  Efficacy is very personal on an item like this so trial and error is the best idea.

Hope this helped answer your question. Thanks for the email.
 

The cock ring revolution meant couples embraced a new way to enjoy sex. Since that is close to a core value at the Sinclair Institute and BetterSex.com, we are glad our gut was correct. Now, a couple of years later, we look like Nostradamus predicting the future. When I want to know what is new in sex and sex toys, I read customer reviews. Here are our most popular pleasure and ED cock rings:

Cock Rings For Pleasure

1. Silicone Triple Orgasm
2. Maximus Enhancement Ring (coming on strong in the last quarter)
3. Double Dolphin
4. Screaming O (a lot of people try this ring first because it is inexpensive)

Cock Rings for Erections

1. Erectus Magna Erection Ring
2. Erexcel Penis Band
3. All Star Enhancer Ring

Example Silicone Triple O - A cock ring designed for vibrating pleasure.





Erexcel Penile Band Cock Rings - A cock ring designed to keep blood in the penis so erection is hard.
 

Erexcel Penile Band Cock Rings Example



 

Better Sex Black Friday Sale Extended Through Cyber-Monday

Friday, November 27, 2009 by Martin Smith
Better Sex Black Friday Sale Extended Through Cyber-Monday Graphic
It's Good To Be The King
I like working on Black Friday. It is quieter since most of the company is shopping. It also means I'm in charge :). Being in charge is fun. Here is what I decided this morning:

1. Better Sex Black Friday Sale is extended through Cyber-Monday (11.29)

2. Create a Rich and Poor link to our high end and inexpensive sex toys (working on this now). "Poor?" link will go to 50 products under $50 and "Rich?" will go to our special treat yourself feature on high end sex toys.

It's fun to be the King (lol). President for a day :). Hope you had a warm and loving Thanksgiving. Monday I return to serving at the pleasure of Sinclair's real President. Since I may have some 'splaining to do, please visit a sale that was supposed to end today and look for our Rich? and Poor? links in the right column this afternoon.

Thanks,
Martin

Msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com

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Happy Thanksgiving!

Wednesday, November 25, 2009 by Martin Smith

Sinclair Institute and everyone at BetterSex.com is thankful for….
Does it seem time is speeding up to anyone else? A couple of days ago it was summer. Blink and a year is almost gone. Before we speed toward year ending holidays we want to share some of what makes our bounty run over:

  • Smart Sharing Customers
We live to serve. Customers make our jobs rewarding and easy. Not falling off a log easy maybe, but easy. Any difficulty is ours. We must remember to LISTEN, LISTEN and LISTEN some more. Mostly, we live in this moment and listen well according to your valuable feedback (thanks), but we have moments. Our desire is always true. We WANT to do the right thing. We want to help. We have too. Our industry leading 90 Day Satisfaction Guarantee would break the bank if our products, ideas and services didn’t help people improve their love life. We have an investment in your relationship. Sounds like marketing speak, but we really do. We get to continue doing what we love because you benefit from our work. Change even a little of this core idea and all bets are off. Smart customers willing to share and help us get better is something we are thankful for everyday all year long, but especially on Thanksgiving.

Read Recent Better Sex Customer Testimonials (from BizRate)
  • Men and Women In Far Off Hostile Lands
Many of our customers are military or were military. Written words fall a short for what we owe you. Thanks for your service seems hollow and cold compared to what we actually feel. If we could hug every soldier then they would understand how much we appreciate such service. It is our privilege to be here eating turkey watching football even as friends protect our back. How do you say thanks for such a thing? We’ve tried by creating a special Military Corner where we recognize and attempt to pay an unpayable debt. Thank You. Thank You. Thank You.
 
Military Corner (sign up and save).

Read Intimacy and Warriors article
by Dr. Lori Buckley   
(read Dr. Lori’s article about how to stay connected)

Sign up for special Military Savings
  •  Better Sex Buzz Team

    Our Buzz Team is a special group of people who help BetterSex.com help others. I'm not saying the Free Sex Toys don't play a role in wanting to be a buzzer (lol), but most Buzz Team members are also our BEST customers. They spend $10 to every $1 we provide in free sex toys. Buzz Team is our tribe, our running pack, our posse. They work hard to write specific reviews helping other customers understand how sex toys really work. They give initial judgment pause and reflection. Buzz Team members may hate a toy, but they are specific about what they dislike. One man's trash is another's treasure and being specific, judging less and writing reviews with less ego-centric prater leaves room for helpful information. Our Buzz Team members get it and they work hard to help others understand....including us. That is why we are thankful for our Better Sex Buzz Team this Thanksgiving.

    Become A Better Sex Buzz Team Member  

  • Brave Men and Women Who Appear In Better Sex Videos
We cast our adult sex education titles with real couples. Real couples bring connection, romance and love into our sex tips and relationship advice. Like being on the front lines, this is another job we couldn’t do. We want to serve, but appearing on camera discuss out sex life would be brave actually having sex is a bridge way too far. Thankfully there are people out there who are willing to share their most intimate moments in the name of helping others. These couples are braver than we are and we appreciate them every single day.

 

  • Oprah
Oprah is going out with a bang. She is retiring next year and we will miss her. Oprah can move mountains. One of the last mountains she wants to move is opening people up about sex. Oprah’s January conversation with Dr. Laura Berman sent thousands to us search for Dr. Berman’s Sex toy Line. A couple of days ago Oprah discussed women and adult movies with Jenna Jamison selling out many of our Jenna DVD’s (we are frantically restocking). Bravo Oprah. Oprah’s powerful influence signals a major trend – sexual health is mainstream. We’ve been standing out in the dessert a long time. We started the Sinclair Institute in 1991 to help couples improve their sex life. We sense we were right then. We know we are in a good place now. Oprah will be missed, but sexual health will continue to improve and become more mainstream every single day.

 

Jenna Jameson Adult Movies

Dr. Laura Berman Sex Toys

 

  • Sex Toy Creators
Creating cool sex toys that feel great provide pleasure and WORK is not easy. Last year an unemployed Nortel executive set the world on fire with a couple’s sex toy called the We-Vibe. We’ve sold thousands of this ingenious high quality toys. Simultaneous stimulation to his penis and her clitoris and g-spot is an idea whose time has come (so to speak) J. Our Super Rabbit with its 16 functions of pleasure continues to astound customers (and us). Rabbits have come a long way from their Sex and the City introduction. We also haven’t forgotten the men. We promise to do a better job of identifying sex toys for men next year (look for a navigation link soon). Our three most popular sex toys for men are our Silicone Triple Cock Ring, Super Head Honcho masturbator and Lucid Dreams #14 (after I wrote about it on our blog). We are thankful for sex toy creators.

 

We-Vibe

16 Function Rabbit Super

Rabbit Vibrators (providing simultaneous g-spot and clitoral stimulation)

Sex Toys for Men (products)

Sex Toys For men (Martin’s blog post)

 

  • Adult Stars & Adult Movie Producers
Let’s see. Stay beautiful, have sex like you are having the time of your life on cue and be a living fantasy. Nope, this is just too hard a job. Yet another job we couldn’t do, but we are grateful for those who can. Jenna is retired now, but lives on in great features such as The Masseuse and our best selling multi-pack For Couples Only. Invite Bree, Jenna or Stormy over this holidays and we guarantee your sex life will get better.
 

 

  • Sex Educators and Therapists
Every Sinclair adult sex education feature includes tips and advice from a sex educator or therapist. Committing your life’s work to helping couples work through stuff is laudable. Dedicating your career to help people solve sexual challenges is our kind of special altruistic professional. Look for more from Dr. Lori Buckley, Dr. Diana Wiley. Dr. Eli Coleman and many others next year, and know we are very thankful for every sex educator, professional and therapist.
 
Sinclair Advisory Panel

Intimacy and Warriors by Dr. Lori Buckley

Questions and Answers with Dr. Lori Buckley

 
Thanks, Happy Thanksgiving and we hope you have some fun, better, sex thanksgiving. Don't forget, our Better Sex Black Friday Sale ends Friday!
 
Martin
Msmith(@)BetterSex(dot)com

Tribal Marketing = latest post on ScentTrail, my personal blog.

Jenna Jameson on Oprah

Tuesday, November 17, 2009 by Martin Smith

On The Oprah Winfrey show today: Lisa Ling reports on why millions of women are using "porn and erotica". The show will feature adult star Jena Jameson and others. Working on a blog post about this now.

Jenna Jameson Movies

More Soon....

Martin's ScentTrail

Friday, November 13, 2009 by Martin Smith
The Daily Martin
Working on a new Better Sex feature called The Daily Martin. Hopefully, this puts more pressure on me than our customers (lol). I'm trying to work up to writing a book, so forcing a daily writing ritual should help.

Many of our customers, Buzz Team Members and fans already know my tendency to write crazy articles such as Better Sex and Nietzsche and Better Sex Zen. The goal is to create something crazy every day :).

Received several emails asking about my recent San Francisco trip. I LOVE the city by the bay and had a great trip visiting Susan and Tim Bratton, founders of Personal Life Media. Personal Life Media will become our first Better Sex Super Partner soon (more on this later). 

San Francisco wasn't all work. I spent two days visiting museums and just BEING in San Francisco. Here is a link to my ScentTrail review of the Richard Avedon show at SFMoMA along with another bay area story from years ago:

ScentTrail Marketing (Martin's personal blog)

Martin's Review Richard Avedon at SFMoMA 

Martin's Shining

The top post on ScentTrail is The Case Against Divorce. Don and Betty Draper needed to read The Case Against Divorce. Mad Men's season wrap up last Sunday has Don and Betty heading to divorce court. Betty is about to marry another Don making my case against divoce's main point.

The Case Against Divorce

Most recent ScentTrail Marketing posts include:

Creating Purple Cows (marketing thoughts on Seth Godin's popular book)

Connected and Loving It (new social marketing book by James Fowler)

Shakabuku Search (Shakabuku is a swift spiritual kick to the head we all need)

Please visit ScentTrail Marketing, my personal blog, to comment, email and link. I'm also on Facebook , LinkedIn and Twitter. Here is a special sentence I read at lunch today:

We can become extremely wise and sensitive to all of humanity and the whole universe simply by knowing ourselves, just as we are...This kind of questioning is the journey itself.
Buddhist Monk Pema Chodron in her book The Wisdom of No Escape
 
Writing 5 articles about Pema Chodron for next week. Look for these and other crazy Martin articles daily on Better Sex. Have a great weekend and thanks for your support, ideas and encouragement.

Martin Smith
Director
The Sinclair Institute
http://www.BetterSex.com

msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com

 


Better Sex Holiday Shipping News

Friday, November 13, 2009 by Martin Smith

Better Sex Holiday Shipping Schedule


Getting What You Want When You Want It

If we all lived in a magical land we would always get what we want when we want it. Does that sound boring to anyone else? Instead, we live in a world with challenge, obstacle and the United States Post Office (USPS). As we get closer to major holidays, we suggest you use faster shipping IF YOU WANT TO HAVE YOUR STUFF BY THE DEADLINE:

Use 2 Day Shipping to "Get It" by Thanksgiving starting 11.12

Use 2 Day Shipping to "Get It" by Christmas starting 12.8

All Holiday Shipping Options

FREE 2 Day @ $75.00 For Limited Time
We've lowered our Free 2 Day Shipping trigger to $75.00. 50% of our orders receive Free Shipping (offered currently for orders at or over $59.00) or Free 2 Day (offered currently for orders at or over $75.00). Not exactly sure when 2 Day will require more in your cart, but know we will probably have to go back to $89.00 soon. Shipping is NEVER free. We just pay the Post Office or UPS for our customers. Death, taxes and UPS will get paid are our new permanent truths. VIP customers who choke up serious coin to buy from us should be rewarded, so we add special shipping subsidies at this time of year.

Review Better Sex Holiday Shipping Options

2 Free Gifts = Still Available
We create products to give away. Free, according Wired Editor Chris Anderson and others, is a valuable marketing message. Who doesn't like FREE? We get something too. Many products we gave away for FREE become some of our best sellers. Free is one of our best ways to sample customers. More than 95% of our orders qualify for 2 Free Gifts. Use the link below to review what is free today (select at the last stage of our check out when you have at least $24.00 in your cart):

What is Free on BetterSex.com Today

Stock Levels
Every year we blow it. We have to guess what will be hot in December in the summer. If you see a big dart board and some wobbly darts you are not too far off. No matter how good we are we will miss something Oprah decides to discuss (like our Dr. Laura Berman sex toys) or a toy whose sudden popularity was unseen, unforecasted and a total surprise. Most of our sex toys come from far off lands, so replacing empty stock can take weeks (sometimes even months).

Buy Now!
This advice is not as self serving as you think. Yes, we love it when you share hard earned money, but acting sooner rather than later may help you have what want when you want it. Nothing bugs us more than NOT getting what we want at this time of year. It is like there is a huge conspiracy to make the special toy is unavailable. No marketing company is that good. When surprises hit no company can afford to milk it. Being out creates too much customer frustration. It way too easy to find some other cool thing in this infinite inventory world we live in, so any inventory hole is being worked on like mad banshees. Don't procrastinate is good advice from a HUGE procrastinator.  

Buy Out-of-Stocks
If we are out of what you want we suggest placing a back order. When stock comes in we ship in reverse order (oldest orders go first). Back order shipping is on us, so get your order in queue. In some rare cases back orders extend past 30 days. If that happens we will email you to make sure you want whatever you ordered 30 days ago. When a products gets boiling hot it can come in and go out the same day. We ship everyone in queue and go right back on back order. We will ship everything on your order that isn't back ordered including your 2 Free Gifts and you will be in queue on a first ordered first shipped basis.

Faster Shipping = Faster Picking
Here is a universal warehouse secret. When you upgrade shipping to 2 Day or 1 Day your order gets picked faster. Every warehouse has daily deadlines, daily cut off times set by carriers such as UPS. Warehouse time is an important concept to understand. Most warehouses crank through the night and morning to process next day and 2 day air orders. The UPS truck comes several times a day when your warehouse is as big as ours.

Cut off for TODAY's overnight and 2 Day is NOON.

Orders after noon go into tomorrow's fast shipment bins. This is why 2 Day can take 3 Days and overnight can take 2 days. After the warehouse processes fast shipments they pick standard shipments. If you don't need to make a deadline, buy $59.00 worth of stuff and receive free standard United States Post Office shipping. USPS has NO TRACKING, but they have a pretty good track record even during these ultra-busy times. If you aren't pressed and have a couple of weeks to spare use USPS. 

If you are on deadline as I will be when I finally get around to my holiday shopping, DON'T KID AROUND either buy enough stuff (currently $75.00 but bound to increase soon) to receive free 2 Day Air FREE (with tracking) or choke up a little extra and select 2 Day.  you can UPGRADE to 2 Day for $6.00 when your order qualifies for Free Standard ($59.00 to $74.00).  

2 Day Air Only Costs $6.00 With Standard Shipping is FREE (current trigger $59.00). 

A LARGE group of customers select $6.00 Two Day Air when their purchase qualifies for Free Standard Shipping. Is it worth $6.00 to get expedited picking AND tracking? The answer is yes for me. Time and BS pain is more important to me than $6.00. 

Thanks for your ongoing support and hope these holiday shipping secrets helps you get what you want when you want it :). 

Martin 
msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com 

Better Sex Black Friday Sale

Friday, November 13, 2009 by Martin Smith
Better Sex Black Friday Sale

Does Christmas Get Earlier Each Year?
Is it just us or does Christmas come earlier and earlier? We are contributing this year with our Better Sex Black Friday Sale. Black Friday is the day after Thanksgiving. The term's is an ode to the importance of the holiday shopping season. Most retailers make most of their yearly profits in November and December. Black Friday, the day after Thanksgiving, is the day retailers move from red ink loses to black ink gains. Most modern accounting is more complex, but the term stuck.

Link To Better Sex Black Friday Sale

Our Black Friday sale has been running for a week. Here are a few Best Sellers:

Better Sex Video Series
We are creating a counter to show how many people have purchased our best selling couples sex helper DVD set this year. About every fifteen minutes a new couple, wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend buys another copy of Better Sex Video Series: Sexplorations. Read Better Sex Video Series reviews by using the link above to see how a product I am proud to say I helped create helps couples.

We-VibeWe-Vibe Kit (with Free Essentials Lubricant)
We-Vibe won Better Sex Toy of the Year at the end of 2008. It has been a star in 2009 too. Many couples love We-Vibe's ability to stimulate her g-spot and his penis during intercourse. This radical new idea is a five heart winner for most customers. Read We-Vibe reviews on our product page (use the first link above).

Lucid Dreams #14
Glad to see strong sales for Lucid Dreams #14. This Doc Johnson vibrator is one of the best sex toys for men on the market (read my Sex Toys For Men post). Watch our Lucid Dreams #14 product video on the product page (use the link above).

For Couples Only by Wicked Pictures
Wicked creates great adult movies. For Couples Only, really three movies, is representative of Wicked's tasteful treatment. Here is Better Sex Buzz Team members Mr. and Mrs. B's take on Fluff and Fold:

Fluff and Fold was the first movie that we watched. It had some amazingly hot scenes and my husband and I would have to say this is one of the best movies we have watched. This would be a great movie to ease someone in to watching adult movies.
Read all 23 reviews on the product page by using the link above.

Super Head Honcho Male Masturbator
Masturbation should be fun and feel great. Hands are talented but limited. Head Honcho is fun and feels great. Here is a Buzz Team review titled Best Masturbator Ever:

OK, OK I have only used 3 different kinds of masturbators in my day but this one was great! The texture was very realistic and the internal suction chambers make this toy the closest to the real thing that I’ve ever felt. The length and pliability of the chamber are perfect and allow for easy access, and total insertion. If I could recommend only one male sex toy this would be the one.
Read all 11 Super Head Honcho reviews by clicking on the link above

Bree Hangs On
Bree is an adult star whose large assets are a not a mystery. Mystery is hard to create in an adult star (lol). Summer sales of Everybody Loves Bree were brisk and seem to be picking up again. We just wish someone would give this beautiful woman a coat. It is fall after all :).

Those are a few early Better Sex Best Sellers from our Black Friday Sale.

Martin
msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com

Will Hot For Teacher Win? Vote Now

Friday, November 13, 2009 by Martin Smith
Better Sex Erotic Fiction Contest Graph and Story link

Hot for Teacher is out to a strong in this week's erotic fiction voting. The Closed Set and The Diner are not so far off the pace. The weekend will determine who will be a Weekly Winner.

Read and Vote Now

Erotic Fiction Stories Are Final
We finalized this year's contest several weeks ago and posted a notice letting all writers know we had great stories once again. We ran out of publication slots. There will be a new contest soon.

2009 / 2010 Erotic Fiction Finalists Post

In House Erotic Writer Selected
There is some confusion over our in-house writer. We've made a selection and are working on publishing first article by Black Friday (November 27Th). We will need more writers in 2010, so please stay in touch.

Thanks to everyone for ongoing support, ideas and comments. Sorry we couldn't write notes to every writer this year but life got crazy as it does every year around the holidays.

Martin
msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com


Miltary Corner Press Release

Thursday, November 12, 2009 by Martin Smith

Are you active or retired Military? Better Sex is creating a new area on our site just for you.

Go to Military Corner on Better Sex

Read Better Sex Press Release

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