Top 5 Tips For Buying Sex Toys For Women
This post helps men buy
sex toys for women by providing specific buying tips. Buying sex toys for her can be a challenge. Since it is a week before Valentine and thousands of men are searching
BetterSex.com for just the right sex toy to celebrate love, connection and better sex we share five buying tips to help men make good decisions when buying sex toys for her.
Buying Sex Toys For Women Tip 1: Think About HerBeing honest we men admit to a tendency toward solipsism. Here is how Wikipedia defines Solipsism, "Solipsism is the philosophical idea that one's own mind is all that exists." Sound familiar? Solipsism is a human trait, but today's post is about men buying sex toys for women. Our first tip is THINK ABOUT HER before deciding on a sex toy. Don't think about what she does that excites you, and we realize writing that sentence means every man reading this post is now thinking about what their partners do that excites them. < pause, reflect, come back to reading> We mean think about her physiological response to sexual stimulation. Take our Buying Sex Toys For Her Quiz:
Buying Sex Toys For Her Quiz
1. Does your partner like cunnilingus (aka oral sex for women)? Yes | No
2. Does your partner like vaginal stimulation during cunnilingus? Yes | No
3. Does your partner orgasm during sexual intercourse? Yes | No
4. Does your partner Orgasm only when her clitoris is stimulated? Yes | No
5. Does your partner have multiple orgasms? Yes | No
6. Is your partner very orgasmic (has orgasms easily)? Yes | No
7. Does your partner orgasm within a certain routine? Yes | No
8. Has your partner ever faked an orgasm (to the best of your knowledge)? Yes | No
9. Can your partner find her g-spot? Yes | No
10. If your partner can find her g-spot, does she like g-spot stimulation? Yes | No
Scoring our Buying Sex Toy For Her Quiz is easy. Add one point for every yes and take one point away for every no. Maximum score is 10, minimum score is - 10. We refer to our Buying Sex Toys For Her Quiz throughout this post.
Buying Sex Toys For Women Tip 2: We-Vibe
Since a man's penis doesn't have a 90 degree angle, stimulating a woman's g-spot with a penis can be difficult. We cover stimulating her g-spot in several adult sex education features:
Unlocking the Secrets of the G-Spot,
The Bette Sex Video Series and
Art of Sex Positions, but sex toys provide help. If you answered YES to questions 9. and 10. pay attention.
The
We-vibe, 2008's Better Sex Toy of the Year, is a new category of sex toy. The We-Vibe is designed to be worn by her during intercourse providing simultaneous stimulation to his penis and her g-spot and clitoris, also known as THE BIG THREE. If you answered NO to question 3 (Does your partner orgasm during sexual intercourse) as many of our We-Vibe reviewers did BEFORE trying this powerful new sex toy you may answer YES after including We-Vibe in love making.
We-Vibe and our
We-Vibe Couples Sex Kit (special price with Free Better Sex Essentials personal lubricant) was our best selling sex toy in 2009!
Buying Sex Toys For Women Tip 3: Rabbits
If you scored your partner low on our Buying Sex Toys For Her Quiz you have a couple of ways to go. You can introduce toys slowly and carefully. See Buying Sex Toys For Women Tip 4: Cock Rings for where I would start if you are taking it slow. Your other choices is to jump into the deep end of the sex toy pool to see if massive stimulation shakes her tree. The best source for massive simultaneous stimulation of her clitoris and g-spot is a rabbit vibrator.
Most men don't watch Sex and the City, in fact someone threatened to
punch me in the face after I wrote a review of the Sex and the City movie in
ScentTrail (my bog). The Rabbit Revolution was started on Sex and the City by the show's Charlotte character. Charlotte locked herself in her apartment and played with her rabbit for days. Easy to understand such a response. Apply vibration simultaneously to many women's g-spots and clitorises and explosive orgasms ensue. There are now HUNDREDS of
rabbit vibrators, Here are three recommendations:
Platinum Jack RabbitPlatinum Jack Rabbit takes advantage of several waves of rabbit innovation. Every rabbit we sell has something good about it as our reviews attest, but diving off this particular board shows your love. Normally this is a $89 Rabbit, but we have it on sale for Valentine's Day. It will be $67.45 until February 15th, so you can afford to buy platinum for less for another week. Solid ergonomics, good balance, easy to use control panel and Cal Exotics excellent attention to detail make Platinum Jack Rabbit a great high end choice to start stimulation.
Dream Maker Nocturnal Emissions VibratorThis is the Rabbit to buy if she already likes rabbits. The innovative sliding discs instead of the normal pearls make g-spot stimulation a new adventure according to our Better Sex Buzz Team reviewers. Dream Maker is taking off. Only in stock since November sales and reviews indicate the g-spot stimulation innovation this rabbit creates is setting a new standard.
16 Function Rabbit Super VibratorI love this vibrator because it is a creation of our Better Sex Buzz Team. When we shipped a handful of 16 Function Rabbit Supers out to our best Better Sex Buzzers and received powerful, specific and adoring reviews. This mid-priced rabbit has sophisticated control over its durable motor. This rabbit has the most going on yet its control panel is intuitive and easy to use. Last thing you want when you are about to orgasm is to wonder what control does what. This rabbit isn't set it and forget BECAUSE it is easy to let it pace your partner's arousal.
Buying Sex Toys For Women Tip 4: Cock Rings
If a man's penis doesn't typically have a 90 degree angle for g-spot stimulation it is also missing any ability to reach up and tickle her clitoris. Her clitoris is looking down on your penis dying to be included in the party. Cock rings include her clitoris in a teasing, now you get a little stimulation now you don't, way. These vibrating
cock rings have some erection assistance (they may help trap some blood in a man's penis), but their main function is application of vibration to his penis and her clitoris during sex. Only someone who has never worn a cock ring would wonder why someone would want to do that. If you answered Yes to questions 1 and 4 then one of these vibrating cock rings is for you:
Screaming O Cock RingI loved the review on this product that said we kept the price low on this cock ring to convince our customer to buy more expensive cock rings like those listed below. We didn't set out with that in mind, but, not soon after reading that review, we started giving away Screaming O Cock Rings to fuel the
Cock Ring Revolution I wrote about several years ago. Giving these "disposable" cock rings away was like tossing jet fuel on burning embers. Sales of the next two cock rings went through the roof. Makes us sound like cock ring dealers, which I guess we are, but we don't want anyone to get hooked on explosive orgasms. No really, we are just here to help (lol).
Silicone Triple Orgasm Cock RingIf Screaming O is the starter this cock ring is the gasoline. Two bullets located above and below his penis stimulate her clitoris and both partners perineum, the area from penis or vagina to anus, to perfection. These are 45 caliber bullets and the Silicone Triple Orgasm is the most flexible of our cock rings. Flexibility means you can move it around easily or SHE can move it around easily without it feeling like your penis just got ripped off (not something you really want to do or feel :).
Double Dolphin Cock RingDouble Dolphin's material is stiffer than Silicone Triple or Screaming O. Stiffer material is not better or worse. It just is. Double Dolphin's bullets tend to have a more determined path than Silicone Triple, but you can still bend and move the bullets to where you want them for maximum orgasmic effect. Bullets are more recessed and this can be good or bad depending on your and your partner's body. The differences between Silicone Triple and Double D are largely personal preferences. We have customers who swear by each. Read the reviews on each page and make a call. All purchases are backed by our industry leading 90 Day Satisfaction Guarantee, so try it and if you don't like we will credit you so you can keep trying until you find the cock ring you and she love.
Buying Sex Toys For Women Tip 5: Clitoral Stimulation
Does your partner ONLY orgasm with clitoral stimulation. This is not unusual, but you want to make sure you have ways to stimulate her clitoris. Yes you already have several good clitoral simulators (fingers, tongue, toes, whatever), but we sell thousands of
Clitoral Vibrators to help including:
G-Gasm Delight VibratorI start small and cheap with clitoral stimulation and work upscale. A woman's clitoris is so sensitive normally you don't need jack hammers to stimulate her to powerful orgasms. This little smooth headed vibrator keeps it simple and thousands swear by it. At $20 what is the worst thing that happens? BTW, we GIVE G-Gasms away every now and again (like the two weeks before Valentine's Day). You can have this $20 vibe for FREE when you purchase at least $24.00 on BetterSex.com. We always note CURRENT FREE GIFT when we are giving away the G-Gasm so you don't buy it too. Why do we give it away? Must not be any good right? Wrong, we give it way so, like the Screaming O, you buy the $100 clitoral vibrator in a month (lol). I guess we are orgasm dealers after all :).
Evolved Bliss Clitoral VibratorsEvolved Bliss vibrators do its name proud. These little vibrators are softer than G-Gasm and a tad more ergonomic. We have them on sale through Valentine's Day, but even their regular price $29.95 doesn't break the bank. What is your partner's pleasure worth? Priceless right? Bliss received a rare 5 heart rating from the Better Sex Buzz Team.
B3 Onye VibratorThese clitoral simulators belong in the Museum of Modern Art's design wing. Their elegance belies hidden orgasmic power. Visual beauty is the first step to clitoral stimulation. B3 Onye delivers enough visual beauty powerful orgasms aren't far off. What did Pavlov's dogs do when he rang the dinner bell? If you said they salivated then you actually paid attention in Psych 101 and, as your reward, we've discounted B3 through Valentine. You tell us if she doesn't pre-orgasm the minute B3 comes out of its elegant silk case.
We hope this long post helps you buy sex toys for her this Valentine or whenever. You can't make a wrong decision on
BetterSex.com. If you don't like any purchase we will provide a refund or credit if you want to try the next toy on our list. Eventually, you will find one, two or five sex toys you love. We hope we are there to help you search and support your purchase.
Peace, thanks for your ongoing support and have a happy Valentine's Day,
Martin
Msmith(at)BetterSex(dot)com
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